Claiming Your Light at Sea Event is a deeply reflective, restorative journey designed for those curious about narcissistic patterns in relationships and who feel called to deepen their self-connection and personal clarity.
Set against the calming rhythm of the sea, this immersive week blends education, self-reflection, and community to create a space where understanding turns into clarity—and clarity into empowerment.
Guided by Dr. Ramani’s compassionate and grounded approach, each day builds upon the next. We begin by creating safety and connection, gently exploring what brings each participant to this work. From there, the week unfolds into a clear, nuanced understanding of narcissism—what it truly is, how it operates in real relationships, and why it can leave such lasting emotional impact. Through engaging talks and thoughtful hands-on exercises, participants gain language for experiences that may have long felt confusing or isolating.
As the journey continues, we explore trauma, attachment, and the invisible ways narcissistic abuse reshapes identity, self-trust, and the nervous system. These responses are reframed not as weakness, but as adaptive survival. Healing is then approached realistically and compassionately—as an ongoing practice of reclaiming boundaries, values, and authenticity rather than chasing closure.
The week closes by widening the lens to include culture, power, and context, followed by reflection, integration, and shared wisdom. Participants leave not “fixed,” but steadier, clearer, and more deeply connected to themselves—carrying forward insight, resilience, and their own reclaimed light.
Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D. is a psychologist in California, the founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training and Consulting, and professor emerita of psychology at California State University Los Angeles. She is the New York Times Bestselling Author of It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People. She is also the author of multiple other books including:
“Don’t You Know Who I Am”: How to Stay Sane in the Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility and Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With Narcissist.
She has lectured and trained therapists around the world on best practices on working with clients experiencing narcissistic abuse and has developed a 36 hour virtual training and certification program in conjunction with PESI to train clinicians on how to use an Antagonism-Informed approach with clients experiencing narcissistic relationships. Dr. Durvasula hosts a popular YouTube channel:
(https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani)
with over 2 million subscribers, maintains a program offering support and education to thousands of survivors, and is a featured expert on the digital media platform MedCircle (https://medcircle.com/).
She also maintains an engaged online network called the Dr. Ramani Network. She has also been widely involved in the governance of the American Psychological Association, including the APA Leadership Institute for Women in Psychology
(https://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/leadership)
and the APA Minority Fellowship Program:
(https://www.apa.org/pi/mfp).
Dr. Durvasula received her M.A., and Ph.D. degrees in clinical psychology from UCLA, and completed her internship and post-doctoral training at the UCLA Department of Psychiatry.
She completed her Bachelor of Science Degree in Psychology, with a minor in sociology in 1988 at the University of Connecticut. She resides in Los Angeles, CA.
Get ready for an absolutely amazing and inspiring journey on our cruise! Our itinerary is packed with thrilling activities and opportunities for relaxation that will leave you truly captivated.
7:30am – 8:30am early-morning meditation and/or movement (optional)
8:30am – 10:00am daily breakfast
10AM-10:30am swim break
11:00am – 1:00pm daily presentations
*The presentation itinerary is subject to change between morning and afternoon hours, depending on the yacht’s location and group preference, and will be decided a day ahead.
1:30pm – 3:00pm: three-course lunch (vegetarian + meat/fish + gluten free option)
*First and last day dinner on board*
Plenty of snacks, fresh fruit, and smoothies will be available all day.
A talented chef will delight your taste buds with delicious meals from Croatia, using only the freshest regional products. At the bar, you can also choose from a wide range of local wines and drinks, ensuring you’ll find the perfect beverage to complement your meal.
After a delicious lunch, you’ll have ample free time to indulge in a variety of activities. Dive into the crystal-clear waters for a refreshing swim or explore the vibrant underwater world with mesmerizing snorkeling adventures. Feel the warm sun on your skin as you relax on the deck, soaking in the breathtaking views that surround you.
The MS CASABLANCA also has various facilities and amenities designed to make your trip as enjoyable as possible. These include a large sun deck with chairs and a Jacuzzi, a spacious dining room, and a bar with a lounge area where you can enjoy a cool drink while taking in beautiful views. Other amenities include an outdoor sauna, gym, free use of two sea bobs and six paddle boards, air conditioning, a massage room, a piano, and Wi-Fi available 24/7.
For those seeking ultimate relaxation, we offer optional on-board massages. To ensure you don’t miss out on this pampering experience, please schedule your massage ahead of time by emailing Bianca at: [email protected]
Take advantage of this unique opportunity to engage in group discussions and connect with fellow cruisers. Share your thoughts, ideas, and experiences as we foster a sense of camaraderie and create lasting memories together.
Between 4:00pm and 5:00pm, we will dock at a different location, igniting a sense of anticipation and excitement. This is your chance to step off the yacht and immerse yourself in the wonders of each destination.
You can choose to join a guided tour, where knowledgeable experts will lead you through the hidden gems of the island or town. Alternatively, if you’re feeling adventurous, you can explore the area on your own. Discover local attractions, indulge in mouthwatering cuisine, visit charming wineries, or simply take a leisurely stroll to absorb the enchanting surroundings.
After our explorations, we will gather back on the yacht for casual conversations. Share stories, laughter, and create unforgettable memories as we enjoy an overnight stay in our comfortable cabins. It’s the perfect opportunity to relax, recharge, and prepare for the exhilarating adventures that await us the next day.
Your journey of a lifetime is about to begin, and we can’t wait to embark on this incredible adventure with you. This itinerary promises to be an unforgettable experience.
Claiming Your Light –An Event at Sea with Dr. Ramani
DAY 1 — Welcome Meet & Greet
Begin the journey by gathering in a relaxed, welcoming setting to connect with fellow guests and Dr. Ramani. This informal meet and
greet offers space to settle in, share intentions, and ease into the week ahead. Through light conversation and shared presence, we’ll create a sense of community and set a thoughtful, supportive tone for the experience to unfold — together. We will also do a brief self-study so we understand what brings us to this question and the different types of relationships we hope to explore.
Day 2 — Understanding Narcissism: What It Is, What It Isn’t, and Why It Matters
Dr. Ramani opens the week by demystifying narcissism and antagonistic personality styles. Moving beyond stereotypes and pop-psychology labels, she explores how narcissism actually operates in real relationships. Through real-world examples and accessible language, this talk explains why narcissistic behavior feels so confusing, destabilizing, and difficult to name. Attendees gain clarity on common myths, warning signs, and why traditional advice often fails when narcissism is involved. We will engage in a hands-on activity to review the ways that narcissistic traits show up in our relationships, and she will answer any questions you have!
Day 3 — Inside Narcissistic Relationships: Why They Pull You In and Keep You Stuck
Today we explore emotional mechanics of narcissistic relationships — romantic, familial, workplace, and social. Dr. Ramani breaks down cycles such as idealization, devaluation, betrayal, trauma, and trauma-bonding, and explains why intelligent, capable people stay in relationships that hurt them. Attendees will recognize patterns, roles, and relational dynamics that quietly shape their experiences and sense of self. Another engaging hands-on event will happen today to review the many ways gaslighting and manipulation show up in these relationships.
Day 4 — Trauma, Attachment, and the Invisible Impact of Narcissistic Abuse
The painful transaction of these relationships is self-silencing, self- suppression, and self-abandonment to be loved. Narcissistic abuse leaves deep psychological imprints that are often misunderstood — even by survivors themselves. In this session, Dr. Ramani explains how trauma, attachment, and nervous system responses shape reactions like self-doubt, longing, grief, and difficulty leaving. This talk helps attendees understand their internal experiences without shame and reframes these responses as adaptive — not weak. We will make a “narcissism bingo” card to help us reflect on how to navigate the relationships we cannot readily leave.
Day 5 — What does healing look like?
Whether we step out of the relationship or just disengage, healing means transitioning from surviving to growth, from self-silencing to authenticity. Today we will review different ways to approach healing, creating more coherent narratives, and tolerating multiple truths that don’t always fit together. Healing is a lifelong commitment, and a daily practice, and Dr. Ramani discusses why healing takes time, why closure is rare, and how survivors begin-rebuilding clarity, boundaries, and self-trust while moving forward with realism rather than false hope. Today we will also do an exercise on who we are, what we stand for, and how to live in alignment with that in the safe spaces we do have.
Day 6 — Power, Culture, and Context: Narcissism in the Real World Even when we try to heal as individuals, how do we navigate a world where narcissistic patterns are reinforced and incentivized. Many people who have endured these relationship feel that even watching the news is unsettling. Narcissistic relationships don’t exist in a vacuum. Dr. Ramani explores how culture, gender, family systems, power imbalances, and social conditioning influence narcissistic dynamics — and why some people face higher risk and greater barriers to leaving. This session invites a broader lens on narcissism,
emphasizing compassion, context, and informed awareness as tools for resilience.
DAY 7 — Closing Q&R and Reflections (“What Happens on Monday?”)
It can be difficult to go back to “regular life” after a week focused on growth and healing. This interactive session invites questions, shared insights, and meaningful dialogue with fellow participants. Together, we’ll reflect on key themes from the week, explore lingering curiosities, and consider how the perspectives gained can be integrated into everyday life. This closing gathering offers space for clarity, connection, and a grounded sense of completion as we carry these reflections forward. Today is also devoted to questions and answers and a chance to bring together what we learned, as well as one last hands-on exercise to integrate. It will be a day of sharing what has worked, what hasn’t worked, and paying it forward to our fellow travelers!
DAY 8 — Disembark in Split
After a nourishing breakfast, we will gather one last time to share heartfelt goodbyes with newfound friends and fellow participants. As we disembark, let’s take a moment to reflect on the journey we’ve shared – the insights gained, the connections made, and the compassion cultivated throughout this transformative experience. May we carry the lessons of healing, connection, authenticity, and understanding into our lives and communities. Until we meet again, let’s hold each other in our hearts, embodying the spirit of compassion and connection we’ve embraced together. Safe travels, and may your paths be filled with light and warmth and clarity.
See The Casablanca for more information on our yacht.
We invite you to an exclusive luxury retreat aboard a five-star yacht, featuring a rare and uniquely curated experience for 30 participants in 15 beautifully designed double + triple – occupancy cabins. Single occupancy is not offered unless two tickets are purchased and the full cabin is reserved.
This cruise offers high-quality amenities and meticulous details to ensure everyone feels welcomed and supported, especially as we learn from Dr. Ramani’s work.
To manage our overseas yacht expenses, all costs must be covered by June 1, 2026.
To facilitate your investment, we offer three payment plans:
Early Bird expires on March 15, 2026
Take advantage of our Early Bird special price of $7,200 (plus a 5.8% processing fee) to be paid in full by June 1, 2026.
This limited-time offer is for those who commit early.
Early Bird Payment Plan:
After March 15, 2026, the price will be $7,800 (plus a 5.8% processing fee).
Initial Deposit: $2,400
First Installment: $2,700 due by April 15, 2026
Second Installment: $2,700 due by June 1, 2026
PAY IN FULL WITH NO EXTRA FEES
For those who prefer to pay in full now, a direct bank deposit of $7,200 is available with no processing fees.
By choosing direct bank deposit, you benefit from a total cost of $7,200 with no processing fees applied. This option allows you to save money while securing your investment quickly.
For Domestic US Wires:
Receiving Bank: American Riviera Bank
For International Wire Transfers in USD:
Bank Name: Citibank
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We encourage you to take advantage of the Early Bird pricing to secure your spot at a reduced rate. Should you have any questions or require further assistance, please do not hesitate to reach out to [email protected]
Given the nature of our overseas cruise event, which requires all expenses to be paid upfront to secure bookings, we kindly request that you obtain travel insurance Cancel for Any Reason (CFAR) policy. This coverage will protect you against unforeseen circumstances that may necessitate a cancellation, ensuring your investment is safeguarded. If you find it necessary to cancel your trip, we encourage you to seek a replacement, and we will do our best to help you find one.
** Please read carefully before you register:
We understand that there is a significant amount of time before the scheduled event, and unforeseen circumstances may arise. Rest assured, we are committed to providing the utmost assistance should you need to cancel your trip and find a suitable replacement. Therefore, obtaining Cancel for Any Reason travel insurance is essential to ensure you are adequately protected and can receive the necessary support in such situations.
Thank you for your understanding and trust in our services.
NOT INCLUDED
*NOTE: All additional fees incurred on board (alcohol, special coffee drinks, spa services, and laundry fees) are due on the last evening and payable in Euro currency in cash only, to the Captain.
Exclusive Access: Sail aboard a private yacht with a small group of up to 30 participants for an intimate experience.
Engaging Presentations: Guided by Dr. Ramani, this week-long journey at sea offers a powerful blend of insight, healing, and connection—helping participants understand narcissistic dynamics, reclaim their sense of self, and move forward with clarity, resilience, and renewed inner strength.
Guided Tours: Explore the outstanding medieval Roman architecture of the Dalmatian Coast with local experts, uncovering hidden gems and cultural treasures.
Culinary Delights: Savor exquisite local cuisine, featuring fresh ingredients and traditional dishes from the region.
Nature Exploration: Visit breathtaking national parks and world-renowned wineries, immersing yourself in the natural beauty of Croatia.
Wellness Activities: Enjoy daily yoga sessions, guided meditation, dance, and sound healing to rejuvenate your mind and body.
Creating a Relaxing and Rejuvenating Experience: Ensure ample time for privacy and reflection as you unwind and connect with your inner self.
Networking Opportunities: Connect with like-minded individuals, fostering friendships and collaborations in a relaxing environment.
Unique Experiences: Engage in group activities that enhance your cruise experience and create lasting memories.
For this cruise – DUBROVNIK TO SPLIT ONE WAY 09/13-20, 2026 you will need to fly to Dubrovnik (DBV):
Dubrovnik Airport: https://www.dbv.hr/ – and return home from
SPLIT:https://www.split-airport.hr/
In DUBROVNIK: Recommendation: private pre-booked transfer (sedan/van). If you prefer there is also a regular shuttle bus service from the Airport to the Main bus station.
Old Town Dubrovnik access (important “no surprises” note) : Dubrovnik’s Old Town has limited vehicle access. In many cases, your driver will drop you at the closest permitted point and your hotel will arrange porter assistance (or you’ll do a short walk with luggage). Plan for steps and uneven stone street
Please be aware that Croatia is a member of the European Union, and transactions are conducted in Euros. It is advisable to carry some cash, approximately €200-$300, for any incidental expenses. You can exchange US dollars at local banks, though most establishments accept credit cards. We recommend checking with your credit card company regarding exchange rates and any potential fees for using your card in Croatia.
Additionally, Airbnb.com and Booking.com accommodations are quite popular in Croatia, often offering a more affordable and charming alternative to hotels, with many featuring beautiful decor.
Dubrovnik Accommodation Shortlist (pre cruise)
Approximate nightly rates for 2 guests (double room) and subject to change with exact dates, view category, and cancellation terms.
Airbnb stays in Dubrovnik are popular, often providing a more affordable alternative to hotels, with well-designed interiors and convenient locations.
Price: approximately €216/night
Official site: https://www.adriaticluxuryhotels.com/hotel-excelsior-dubrovnik/
Price: approximately €518/night
Official site: https://www.villa-dubrovnik.hr/
Price: approximately €139/night
Official site: https://www.hilton.com/en/hotels/dbvhihi-hilton-imperial-dubrovnik/
Price: approximately €235/night
Official site: https://www.adriaticluxuryhotels.com/hotel-bellevue-dubrovnik/
Price: approximately €158/night
Official site: https://www.adriaticluxuryhotels.com/hotel-dubrovnik-palace/
Price: approximately €133/night
Official site: https://www.rixos.com/hotel-resort/rixos-premium-dubrovnik
Price: approximately €291/night
Official site: https://thepucicpalace.com/
Price: approximately €250/night
Official site: https://www.stjosephs.hr
Top 10 Restaurant Recommendations in Dubrovnik
Approx. menu: tasting menu from ~$225 per person (exchange-rate dependent) Official site: https://360dubrovnik.com/
Approx. menu: tasting menu ~€155 per person Official site: https://www.nautikarestaurants.com/restaurant-nautika/
Approx. menu: set menu ~€50 per person (as published by the restaurant) Official site: https://www.esculaprestaurants.com/proto/
Approx. menu: ~€80–€140 per person (estimate; depends on wine + courses) Official site: https://staraloza.com/
Approx. menu: light lunch items ~€17.50–€19 (menu pricing) Official site: https://www.nautikarestaurants.com/panorama-restaurant-bar/
Approx. menu: mains commonly ~€23–€34 (menu pricing) Official site: https://www.nautikarestaurants.com/dubravka-restaurant-cafe/
Approx. menu: oysters ~€3.50 each, plus seafood mains/specialties (menu pricing shown) Official site: https://www.bota-sare.hr/dubrovnik/
Approx. menu: starters ~€19–€28, mains ~€19–€36, desserts ~€7 (menu pricing) Official site: https://www.pantarul.com/
Approx. menu: ~€60–€120 per person (estimate; depends on seafood/steaks + wine) Official site: https://www.sesame.hr/
Approx. menu: ~€35–€70 per person (estimate; great value relative to Old Town seafood) Official site: https://www.tajmahal-dubrovnik.com/
Recommended Wine Bars and Wineries in Dubrovnik
The most reliable “Croatian wine discovery” spot, excellent selection by the glass and structured tasting flights (great if you want guidance without committing to a full bottle). Official site: https://dvino.net/
A distinctive “Dubrovnik-only” experience, local wines and liqueurs, often paired with snacks/tastings and a more artisanal, boutique feel. Official site: https://www.lekri.eu/
Boutique estate focused on Malvasija Dubrovačka (local heritage white) + traditional prošek dessert wine—very “Dubrovnik region” and intimate.
Official site: https://malvasija-karaman.com/
Famous for underwater-aged wines, a unique “only-in-Croatia” experience (great storytelling + photos).
Official site: https://www.edivovina.hr/
A modern, design-forward winery experience on Pelješac, excellent for guests who love a curated, high-end vibe (by appointment).
Official site: https://saintshills.com/
Prestigious winery producing classic Croatian reds and whites (about 2 hrs from Dubrovnik).
Official site: https://www.grgic-vina.com/en/about-us/
Top 10 attractions in Dubrovnik
The iconic walk around the Old Town perimeter. Dubrovnik’s most unforgettable views with red roofs, open sea, and fortress towers. Best done early morning for cooler temperatures and fewer crowds.
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/dubrovnik/attractions/city-walls
The historic center and its main marble street. This is the “living stage” of Dubrovnik with architecture, cafés, tiny lanes, and constant atmosphere. Perfect for a slow, elegant wander and people-watching.
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/dubrovnik/attractions/stradun
A dramatic seaside fortress just outside the walls. Big cinematic energy, gorgeous panoramas, and one of the best places for photos, especially if you love history or dramatic settings.
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/dubrovnik/attractions/fort-lovrijenac
A beautifully preserved Gothic-Renaissance palace and museum. A quick, refined cultural stop that helps you understand Dubrovnik’s old republic and how sophisticated this city was centuries ago.
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/dubrovnik/attractions/rectors-palace
The main cathedral, with a treasury of religious art and artifacts. Serene, historically rich, and a perfect “cool-down” stop in the middle of the day, especially for travelers who enjoy art and heritage.
Website: Dubrovnik Cathedral & Treasury
A peaceful monastery with one of Europe’s oldest still-functioning pharmacies. Quiet beauty, cloisters, and a unique historical detail, an ideal short visit that feels special and authentic.
Website: https://tzdubrovnik.hr/lang/en/get/muzeji/5556/franciscan_pharmacy.html
A green island just offshore with paths, swimming spots, and scenic corners. The fastest way to switch from city energy to nature, great for a swim + light walk and a relaxed afternoon away from the crowds.
Website: https://www.dubrovnik-online.net/lokrum-island
The panoramic viewpoint above Dubrovnik. The “wow” moment, especially at sunset. This is the place for that signature photo and a drink with a view.
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/dubrovnik/attractions/cable-car
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/dubrovnik/bars-clubs/buza-bar
A nearby island group ideal for swimming coves and relaxed lunches. The best “luxury feeling” day: sea time, quiet bays, and a slower rhythm. This is the #1 upgrade if you want to make the trip feel truly special.
Website: https://www.absolute-croatia.com/elaphiti-islands
Car Rental Companies (Dubrovnik / DBV)
Prices are approximate per day and vary by season, transmission (automatic costs more), and vehicle class. As a rough guide, Dubrovnik averages are often around $57/day (small), $64/day (medium), and $95/day (SUV) on major booking platforms. (For peace of mind, we recommend choosing a company with strong customer ratings at Dubrovnik Airport (DBV) and reserving early for automatics.)
Price: approximately €50–€110/day One of the highest-rated at DBV (strong reviews and smooth service). Website: https://www.oryx-rent.hr/
Price: approximately €45–€100/day Consistently high customer rating at DBV with a large review base. Website: https://www.alamo.com/
Price: approximately €45–€105/day Strong DBV ratings and a good selection of vehicles (including higher-end options). Website: https://www.sixt.com/
Price: approximately €45–€110/day Well-rated at DBV and a solid “no-drama” choice for service and vehicle condition. Website: https://www.enterprise.com/
Price: approximately €50–€120/day Highly rated by travelers at DBV, and they often have a broad fleet including vans (useful for luggage-heavy groups). Website: https://www.rentacarlastminute.hr/
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